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Friday, May 31, 2013
This is the opinion of Gandhi's for marriage love. This is how he see it.
There are different kinds of love, and these are variously expressed as motherly love, brotherly love, sensual love, emotional love, sexual love, selfish love, selfless love and universal love. If people develop only their carnal or selfish love towards each other, that type of love cannot last long. In a true love relationship, one should not ask how much one can get, but how much one can give.
When beauty, complexion and youth start to fade away, a husband who considers only the physical aspects of love may think of acquiring another young one. That type of love is animal love or lust. If a man really develops love as an expression of human concern for another being, he will not lay emphasis only on the external beauty and physical attractiveness of his partner. The beauty and attractiveness of his partner should be in his heart and mind, not in what he sees. Likewise, the wife who follows Buddhist teachings will never neglect her husband even though he has become old, poor or sick.
"I have a fear that the modern girl loves to be Juliet to have a dozen Romeos. She loves adventure. The modern girl dresses not to protect herself from wind, rain and sun, but to attract attention. She improves upon nature by painting herself and looking extraordinary."
words can effect the relationship between you.
It is better to use character related words when you talk to your spouse. Because, such qualities of words give him or her the respect, patience, helpfulness, kindness or courage etc. You must know the words have an ability to make a big effect on your spouse.
Loud voice is the evil for close relationship.
The little things you do may be very important to build relationship.
Woman likes to be given her much more attention to her talk.
If you are a husband, you are advised to spend time giving your female partner your full attention and looking into her eyes directly when you talk to. Woman likes such things. By being followed such activities, she becomes much more receptive to your desires. This intimacy can be helpful to both of you to fulfill your needs.